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Did you know that money is one of the main causes for divorce? While that may not always be true, in many cases, it is the lack of money that is the real problem. Knowing that, it is very important to develop financial independence irrespective of whether or not your spouse is able to make ends meet for both of you. Finding a soulmate, then, is a matter of thinking with your head as much as your heart. If it is the heart that leads you to your One, it is the head that helps you manage that relationship so it remains healthy for life.
Being financially dependent on the man of the house is acceptable in most cultures. However, in today’s fast-paced world, that equation has changed in these very same cultures. No longer is the woman expected to take care of the family while the husband brings home the bacon.
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