The Law of Attraction for Love isn’t only about what your thoughts are focused on. It’s often equally about what you do and how you behave. Outer confidence comes from inner esteem, but the other way works too. We’ve all heard about the phenomenon of a forced physical smile uplifting our moods when practiced repeatedly; while you may not believe the theory that external behavior affects internal emotions, you’ve certainly seen its effects in action.
Finding a Soulmate: How Can Actions Influence Emotion?
Every one of us has experienced “Monday morning blues”, but we still get up and go to work anyway; the very act of getting out of bed does wonders for your mind – it sets the tone for the week. Therefore, it goes to show that if you do certain physical activities, it will impact your inner mind. Now extend that concept to the outside world, and what you have is an effective way to influence other people! Let’s explore this idea vis-à-vis attracting or finding a soulmate.
A smile is one of the most powerful communication tools known to man. It almost always elicits a smile from the receiver. Try it when you’re walking down the street and you’ll see what I mean. Of course, you have to be casual about it – grinning from ear to ear at everyone you meet might have unexpected consequences.
Give Genuine Compliments
Everyone from Dale Carnegie to Napoleon Hill has espoused the value of a genuine compliment given in true sincerity. But what is a genuine compliment? Does “Hey, I love your dress” qualify? Does it have to be as specific as “I really like the way you handled the boss’s question at the meeting today?” Honestly, it doesn’t matter what the compliment is as long as it is given from the heart. It could be a simple “thanks” or an elaborate appreciation email. The only thing that matters is this: that you always mean what you say, and always say only what you really mean.
Be Confident, Be Yourself
Never try to be someone you are not. If you’re an introvert, don’t try to be an extrovert – unless your profession calls for it. There are innumerable introverts who have been successful at finding a soulmate. Equally, don’t deny your own qualities: instead, express them freely. This is what confidence is all about – knowing and trusting that people will accept you for who you are.
Be a People Magnet
The Law of Attraction for Love entails activating your magnetism. This can only be achieved by raising your energy level so that people are invigorated by your presence. They should feel power emanating from you. Every born leader has this quality, but it can be developed by anybody. For this, you may need to “act as if” you have it, and you will. Exaggerate your positive emotions all the time and you will eventually reach a state of naturally high energy levels.
Remember: The Law of Attraction for Love works for everyone, not just a “chosen few.” You can be the one to use its power. Try it – and be the better for it.
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