Here is a teaser of my latest article on Singles Warehouse.
If you’re stuck in a dead-end relationship, then it’s probably time to end it once and for all. Though this is easy to say, it can be very hard to do in reality. The biggest problem is not usually how you get over a break up, but the breaking up itself. A lot of women find themselves losing their identities and becoming a mere crutch for their partners – nothing more than an automaton that responds to the man’s every need and whim. Unfortunately, quite a lot of women are in this situation and want to break free but don’t know how.
To Get Over, Break Up First
You first need to end the relationship before you can think about how to get over the break up. The first step here is to acknowledge your situation and face it head on. You may not be that automaton but if the symptoms are showing, then it’s only a matter of time before you lose your entire idea of ‘self’ and start existing purely for your partner; this is neither healthy for you, nor for him, although you may not realize that until much later. You can continue reading the post and leave your thoughts at Here is a teaser of my latest article on http://www.singleswarehouse.co.uk/2012/12/get-over-a-break-up-now-rather-than-later.
Reminds me of a song by Rascal Flatts…I’m Movin On!…
Very well said Edmund, thank you.
Regardless of the time or situation, it’s never healthy to lose sight of one’s identity and self at the expense of another. From my point of view, relationships are when 2 people with a concrete idea of their identity join together to enhance the overall experience.
Love what Denny said. “When you have ended it in your mind the rest is easier” So very true!
Losing yourself for the sake of a relationship is never acceptable. Great advice, Lorii!
It’s true that you can’t get over the relationship if you’re still in it.
Making the decision to commit to any action, including ending a relationship is the first step to forward motion! When you have ended it in your mind, the rest is easier!