How to find the guy for you does not depend on your age. There are countless people out there who found love even after 40. It is after all, just a change in attitude and way of thinking that will get you the love that you deserve. If you want to know how to answer the question, how can I find true love? It is highly advisable for you to start throwing away any notions about age that can hinder you from finding true love. As long as it’s legal, it’s okay.
You just have to look at women who found love in younger men and know that it’s doable. If the love of your life happens to be someone who’s much older, don’t sweat. As I said, the heart doesn’t know of any age limit. It only knows what is true and right for you. If your destiny is to be with a younger man or a much older man, then so be it. Let the universe take care of things for you. The more you put yourself in a worry-state, the less love will come to you. How to find the guy for you lies in your ability to open yourself up to possibilities and believing in the power of love.
Apart from being age-conscious, another thing you maybe want to look out for is your preconditions about aesthetics. Don’t be limited to dating just the pretty ones. You have to know that at this stage of your life, there are more important things that matter aside from looks. Get to know the heart and be with someone who has substance. By doing this, you just might be able to answer the question, how can I find true love?
Since we are on the topic of throwing away preconceived notions, you might as well stop limiting yourself to certain socially acceptable and unacceptable notions. For example, your refusal to date someone with kids or an ex-wife. If you set limits like these, you just might find yourself all alone in the end. You never really know if your true love is someone with these conditions and you can miss out on your true love if you set these limits.
I always tell the dating expats that I support to widen their social circle in order to up their chances of meeting the one. Let go of the hunt and focus more on the experience of meeting and getting know people. If you do, there’s a higher chance of meeting your soulmate just because you are in tune with what you want from someone and from the relationship. How to find the guy for you is highly dependent on your ability to genuinely have fun and let go of your notions about dating. Remember that the universe is out there listening to whatever it is that you want from a mate whether it’s someone who’s over 40 or younger, it will give you the love that you deserve no matter what.
Thanks for sharing your story, Elise. Love does really come at any age.
That is cute, Patricia.
Yes, Theresa. Some people focus on what is wrong all the time. It seems like the person seeking does not have flaws.
I love your comment that as long as it’s legal, it’s okay ~ so true! Great advice as always Lorii. If you want true love to come your way, it will happen no matter what age you are. And, a lot of times you are wiser when you are older, which means you make better decisions about what true love looks like.
Great information. I have a friend who would benefit from reading this. I am going to share it with her. Thanks Lori!
yes! “Let go of the hunt and enjoy meeting people.” I love your tips about letting go of all your pre-conceived notions too. I’ve been married for 22 years, but my heart aches for the singles out there who want to find true love also. It’s never too late.
A very well written informative post!!
Great article Lorii!! True love is available at any age. You just have to stay open to the possibility. Thanks!!
Much needed encouragement for those who are concerned about age: “It is highly advisable for you to start throwing away any notions about age that can hinder you from finding true love. As long as it’s legal, it’s okay.”
Lorii, what’s age have to do with it? Love this. As age is just a number but love is in the heart. Anything can be worked out with love in the forefront of the relationship. I believe that maturity is more valuable and important that age. Great post.
Lorii,
Great article and advice for single people of any age! Thanks for sharing!
Great advice -Love can find you at any age!
Once again another wonderful post!:) Thanks for sharing your wisdom for those looking for love!
It is true, love knows no age. Also agree with preconceived notions. We must simply be open for love to present itself.
aged doesn’t matter (as long as it’s legal).
love this post…
Great advice for people of all ages looking for that special someone.
You give such wonderful advice on finding true love, Lorii. It is always so funny to me when people place such unrealistic expectations on potential relationship partners…reminds me of Jerry Seinfeld and how he always found something wrong with each new woman he dated! LOL Plus, if you expect to find problems you will definitely find them! So if you expect that dating someone with kids won’t work for you, it really won’t.
I’m not always sure my hubby is my soul mate… but I’m totally sure I aint’ tradin in!! loved the article thanks and great job!
I agree with Alexandra, Lorii…these tips are great advice for anyone who is dating, not just the over 40′s!
YES! Don’t give up no matter what your age. In fact, I think the older I am the more clear I am on what I need and what I have to give to my husband. God didn’t find me the right man till I was in my mid-30′s and I know many women who haven’t found the ‘right’ person till 50 or 60! Don’t give up!!!
Ahh it’s never too late to find your soulmate! People over 40 find love everyDay! I love your Manifest program! Awesome it is..;)
Lorii, you really give great advice on finding true love! Even thought you concentrate on people over 40, your tips can help everyone! I’m not dating at the moment but if ever I do decide to do so, I’ll know where to seek advice! Thanks for all the happiness you bring!
Great article! I didn’t find my soul mate until almost 40…but it was worth the wait!:)
Great tips! I have found my soul mate but will share with others in case they have not:)