Relationship Hiccups for Busy Ladies Over 50

Aisha Sultan for lifestyle column, headshot taken Friday, December 21, 2007When you’re in the midst of a fulfilling career and balancing so many things in your life, a long-term relationship can often seem like a wet blanket to your life’s agenda.However, have you ever asked yourself whether you’re lying to yourself when you say that you aren’t interested in a relationship anymore? A lot of women over 50 either feel that there’s something wrong with them or that they’re really self-sufficient, and that’s why they’re still single. But the truth is that the majority of them have merely been going about it the wrong way. The following tips will help you identify areas that you can change to get Mr. Right out of your dreams and into your car!
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Love Around the Corner for Busy Over-40 Women

couple_in_whiteHere is a teaser of my latest article on YourTango

If you are over 40, busy as heck and don’t have time for anything other than making sure your life’s in order, it’s likely that you have put romance on a back shelf somewhere.

Why?

Finding a soulmate isn’t a pursuit exclusive to those in their 20s or 30s. In fact, your age is the right age to think maturely about relationships. You have the experience to know what you want; more importantly, what you definitely DON’T want. In addition, a busy life or a hectic career are fine only as long as you have the right person to share it with at the end of the day.

Here are some pointers for women-over-40 who are open to new relationships.

• If you have a friend with a large social network, let them know of your availability. Why hide under a rock when you should be shouting from the mountaintops? Well, figuratively, anyway. The point is, getting a good friend to give you a helping hand in finding the right man is something to be proud of, not something to be ashamed of.

You can continue reading the post and leave your thoughts at http://www.yourtango.com/experts/lorii-abela/love-around-corner-busy-over-40-women

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Top 5 Reasons Why Your Relationship is Failing

fightingfHere is a teaser of my latest article on YourTango

Have you ever wondered why a relationship fails?
For most people, the answer to that question would be a “no”…until it happens to them.

At this point in your life, if you’re in the process of finding a soulmate and find yourself in a relationship that seems to be heading nowhere – or worse, going in reverse – then one of the following reasons may be the culprit.

The Choice

The most obvious reason may be that you made the wrong choice in the first place. We’re not always sure of what we want, so when we see something we like, we tend to confuse the two. It’s a typical “love at first sight, but now I can’t stand the sight” syndrome!

You can continue reading the post and leave your thoughts at http://www.yourtango.com/experts/lorii-abela/top-5-reasons-why-your-relationship-failing

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Finding A Soulmate 101: The 5 Subtle Secrets To Success

couple_in_bed_0Here is a teaser of my latest article on YourTango

There’s no “system” for finding a soulmate. You don’t ever have “The House” clean you out and there’s certainly no “House Edge” haunting your every move. But as easy as it may all sound to you, it might come as a surprise to learn that soulmate success involves some secrets. Here are some nifty tips to get you through those “still single” blues days that keep creeping up on you like a new birthday every year!

1. Keep Your Standards High
Agreeing to every dating opportunity is not about lowering your standards to what you’re uncomfortable with. It’s about first identifying what those standards are, and then learning how to say no when you meet someone who doesn’t fit that picture. Saying no means you respect yourself and will not compromise on what you value in a relationship. Just because he’s a ‘looker’ doesn’t mean you throw your standards out the window and let him into your life.

You can continue reading the post and leave your thoughts at http://www.yourtango.com/experts/lorii-abela/finding-soulmate-101-subtle-secrets-success

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Singles 365: 10 Epic Reasons to Date Someone New Every Day

sirenfHere is a teaser of my latest article on YourTango

Okay, let’s get this over with quickly. It’s not every day that you come across these many “excuses for success” all lined up like ducks in a row, ready and waiting for you to take advantage of them. “How do you find love” can be uncertain. However, everyone gets a chance in finding a soulmate. On to business:

Reason #1: It allows you to apply the process of elimination to what could otherwise be a very tricky decision!

Reason #2: The more you date, the more attractive you become (to yourself, which is more important, anyway!)

Reason #3: The second date is entirely your choice, not your lot! There’s freedom to choose.

You can continue reading the post and leave your thoughts at http://www.yourtango.com/experts/lorii-abela/singles-365-10-epic-reasons-date-someone-new-every-day

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Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life Co-Author Mary Ann Comaroto

Lorii Abela, Soulmate Expert, interviews Mary Ann Comaroto , Relationship Expert and Activist. She talks about the core components in responsible relationships.

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Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life Co-Author Tamara Star

Lorii Abela, Soulmate Expert, interviewed Tamara Star, Author, Speaker, Coach, about living life to the fullest and how it relates to one’s love life.

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Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life Co-Author Rachel Dack

Lorii Abela, Soulmate Expert, interviewed Rachel Dack, Psychotherapist and Relationship Coach, about the common reasons she have found that are sabotaging singles from finding the meaningful romantic relationship they are looking for.

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Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life Co-Author Cathie Sherwood

Lorii Abela, Soulmate Expert, interviews Cathie Sherwood, Life Coach. She talks about how to get into the “magic awakening” state.

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How to be Attractive to Men

one+woman+many+men+pictureIt is remarkable that the beauty or sublimity of a woman is a perfect reflection of who she is, what she wants and how she can be a right and favorite object to a man’s eye. It is her intention to get noticed by the emotion of sublime delight that practically shown by the sensitivity upon the man whom she is attractive to. The part of a man’ s brain is tasked to focus on the responsiveness that gives preference resulting to the attractiveness or likelihood towards opposite sexes. Furthermore, for attractiveness to be effective, it needs the usual association existing between inward feelings and the objects which is the subject of attraction of men towards a particular woman. The power of getting noticed by men to quicken and motivate one’s woman life is incalculable.

If you are yearning to be more attractive to men or makes men fall in love, here are some valuable tips for you to attract the men into your life. Such tips listed here under have been proven with amazing results.
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