3 Secrets to Hook The Man You Want & Keep The One You Got!

a389173Have you ever wondered what is that magic pill that silver bullet, or the genie in the bottle in knowing the formula to attract the right man into your life? I say all the time… “In order to have the relationship you want, you must first BE that relationship.” Some have wondered what does this mean. Well, I’ll tell you…”you can’t give what you don’t have – you can’t get what you don’t give”. It’s that simple.

The Law of Attraction doesn’t discriminate or judge who’s deserving of love and a relationship; YOU determine that. Have you ever heard yourself saying or thinking?

  • All the good men are taken.
  • All men are dogs.
  • Men will cheat on you.
  • Men aren’t attracted to me.
  • I only seem to attract men that are needy and insecure.
  • I’m with a deadbeat who just mooches off me.

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Why Dating May Not Be for You

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If you’ve been let down by your dating life, you are not alone. Most women have been in your situation and have wanted to give up. But here’s what you may not realize. Most people who are dating have different expectations. For instance, let’s say you want a monogamous relationship and the guy you’re dating, wants a casual relationship. Both of you are expecting a different outcome. If you continue dating this guy knowing he doesn’t want the kind of relationship you want, you will once again be disappointed and frustrated.

Dating to find a mate will most likely let you down because nowadays, dating is about having casual sex, hanging out and hooking up, or companionship. Many people who date are not looking for a long-term partner. If you’re sick and tired of meeting guys who try to rush you into having sex instead of getting to know the real you, it’s time to stop dating.

The Approach to a Committed Relationship

There is a better approach — one that will attract more men who want the same kind of relationship as you do. It’s letting yourself be wooed. Despite how things have greatly evolved in the dating world, wooing has remained constant. Wooing has a universal meaning where both individuals are together with the intention of a committed relationship or marriage.

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Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life Co-Author Lisa Kaplin

Lorii Abela, Soulmate Expert interviewed Psychologist Lisa Mohl Kaplin on the common causes that gets people stuck and can’t move on with a more satisfying life.

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Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life Co-Author Sandi Boyd

Lorii Abela, Soulmate Expert, interviewed Sandi Boyd, Dating Coach. She discussed about conscious dating and gave tips in order to implement it.

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Money and Its Role in Matters of Love

aaHere is a teaser of my latest article on YourTango

Did you know that money is one of the main causes for divorce? While that may not always be true, in many cases, it is the lack of money that is the real problem. Knowing that, it is very important to develop financial independence irrespective of whether or not your spouse is able to make ends meet for both of you. Finding a soulmate, then, is a matter of thinking with your head as much as your heart. If it is the heart that leads you to your One, it is the head that helps you manage that relationship so it remains healthy for life.


Being financially dependent on the man of the house is acceptable in most cultures. However, in today’s fast-paced world, that equation has changed in these very same cultures. No longer is the woman expected to take care of the family while the husband brings home the bacon.

You can continue reading the post and leave your thoughts at http://www.yourtango.com/experts/lorii-abela/money-and-its-role-matters-love

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Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life Co-Author Erika Ettin

Lorii Abela, Soulmate Expert interviewed Erika Ettin – online dating coach. She shared the do’s and dont’s in preparing your online dating profile.

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How To Avoid Bad Relationships?

leave-bad-relationship-800x8001-300x300Here is a teaser of my latest article on Singles Warehouse

That is a pressing question that most people in their 40s are faced with! In fact, if you dig deep enough, you’ll see that most people fall into bad relationships because they are trying to find the ultimate good one at the end of the tunnel. Unfortunately, the end of the tunnel seems a distant dream to most people on a quest of finding a soulmate. Let’s explore some of the ways to avoid these bad relationships so you can save yourself for the ultimate one – The One.

Look at the Pattern

Everything in life has a pattern – the good stuff and the bad. Nothing is random and certainly nothing is a matter of chance. The Grand Design of the Universe shows you exactly how the Law of Attraction for Love works, but to make it work for you rather than against you, you must first identify the pattern of bad relationships in your life.

You can continue reading the post and leave your thoughts at http://www.singleswarehouse.co.uk/2014/03/how-to-avoid-bad-relationships/

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Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life Co-Author M Makael Newby

Lorii Abela, Soulmate Expert, gets candid with M Makael Newby. Makael explained the top 3 relationship struggles in relationships and how to remedy it.

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Dating expats: Let Love Find You

flirting_0Here is a teaser of my latest article on YourTango

If you are dating expats or are an expat yourself looking to date a local, there are several things to consider. If you haven’t had the kind of success you’d hoped for in finding a soulmate, don’t worry: there are things you can do to make yourself more appealing and approachable.

Be Open

Opportunity, unlike the old adage, does not knock just once. It bangs at your door until you either open it, or it will try another door; and it will keep doing this until you take notice of what it is trying to offer you. You can continue reading the post and leave your thoughts at http://www.yourtango.com/experts/lorii-abela/dating-expats-let-love-find-you

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Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life Co-Author Faith Dugan


Lorii Abela, Soulmate Expert, interviews the Money Mentor, Faith Dugan.  Faith talks about how money and financial matters affect relationships. She further gives pointers for singles how to be able to prepare and avoid financial problems before going into a relationship.

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