It’s Not Them, It Is You! Why Women Can’t Find Mr. Right

its you 1If you’re a woman trying to answer the question ‘how to find true love’ and not getting any answers, then you’re not alone. Millions of single women are faced with the same problem, and they can’t seem to find a way out of the never-ending dating cycle.

Are You Too Picky?But there’s a way out. However, you have to be willing to take the blame for it rather than passing the buck by saying that Mr. Right just isn’t out there anymore. Here are a few things that you have to come to terms with.

A lot of women don’t know that there’s a big difference between Mr. Right and Mr. Perfect. The latter doesn’t exist; the former does! Finding a Mr. Right in your life isn’t such a hard thing once you know what standards you want to set. Search for Mr. Perfect and you may be searching your entire life with no success! Continue reading

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2 Incredible Tips to Make you a Top Hit with Men

Man and womanDo you want heads to turn and conversations to stop when you walk into a room? Would you sooner be a super-model with a bevy of beaus swarming around her than a stay-at-home-and-watch-Renee-Zellweger-movies type? Is your age-old question “how can I find true love” still unanswered? Then continue reading carefully because it could give you freedom like nothing else can!

Love Yourself

You’re probably thinking “oh God, this is some kind of esoteric salve they’re trying to apply on me.” Far from it, there’s practical value in valuing yourself. For starters, you’ll begin to understand why men love a self-confident woman over a low-key girl. A woman that exudes confidence can only do that if she’s absolutely in love with herself – and certainly not in the narcissistic “oh look at me I’m so pretty” way. Continue reading

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Dating a Man Over 40

over 40 man-page-001Dating a man over 40 has its pros and cons. One of the good things is that you’ll find this man a lot more open and available since he’s probably starting to realize that his option to play the field is getting shorter with each passing year. Here are some of implications to consider when dating a man over 40.


A guy over 40 has been around awhile and risen through most of the ranks in his career. For one thing, he isn’t paying his student loans back, and he probably owns a car or home.  On the flip side, he’s been paying his own bills for a while and he’s fixed in a lot of ways that he wasn’t when he was younger. You’re not going to change him. Continue reading

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Are you Sabotaging your Relationships without Realizing It?

sabotaging(1)-page-001Scary-big question, isn’t? When you’re going from date to date in a haze and wondering whether finding a soulmate will ever be in your fate, it’s likely that you’ve (hesitatingly) asked yourself this question. You’re not alone.

But the fact that you’re not alone doesn’t absolve you of all guilt. The question still needs to be answered. In fact, you may, over the years, months or weeks (depending on what your situation is), have already attempted to answer that question yourself. Continue reading

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5 Things your Man Says and What He REALLY Means

5 things your man says image blogMen are from Mars and women are from Venus. Well, you have already heard this before, but most of go on living life as if that concept never existed in the first place. The men things say are usually taken so literally that the true meaning is forcefully eclipsed into oblivion – never to be seen again.
But on a lighter note, if you’re wondering how can you find true love, then the answer may be closer than you think. Here are some of the things your man might say – and what they REALLY mean:

“I can’t express my feelings the way you do”
Well, of course not! Otherwise he’d be a girl, wouldn’t he? Why do you expect him to wear his emotions on his sleeve? Society has drummed it into his head that “boys don’t cry”, “men don’t show emotions” and all that rubbish. Continue reading

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10 Things that Say Your Man is Marriage Material

image wedding-page-001Finding a soulmate isn’t the easiest thing in the world for most people. Most think that it’s a magical phenomenon that only happens in fairytale land! But what very few people realize is that it is probably one of the easiest things to manifest. The hard part is to see whether a guy is marriage material or not! Of course, once you read this article it will be way easier…
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10 – He thinks you’re funny even though all your friends just roll their eyes whenever you make an attempt at humor.
Yeah, this means he’s got some of the same funny bone elements in his body too! Someone who laughs at even your stupidest jokes is definitely a person you want to have around in your life – for a long time. Continue reading

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How to Find a Date for Valentine’s Day

It’s a few days until the official day of love, and you haven’t found a date yet! Did you know that most single women are likely to spend Valentine’s Day alone at home if they haven’t found a date at least a couple days prior to “The Day?” Well, don’t fret if your calendar’s still empty for the 14th; here are some great tips to help you land that date for Valentine’s

Go to a Singles Event

In every city, there are tons of places where singles hang out, trying to ‘hook up’ with someone they vibe well with. Why not go to one of these places and see if you find someone you’d like to spend Valentine’s with. It might seem like a long shot, but remember that singles hangouts are ideal for “browsing around” for the right person. Who knows, you might even hit the jackpot! Continue reading

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Discover how to find love in 2015. Meet some “cupids” live in Chicago on February 12 for a pre-Valentine’s book launch of the Amazon best seller book entitled “Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life.”

PRLog - Jan. 25, 2015 - CHICAGO – In a smash-hit sequel to the hugely popular Sexy Secrets series, best-selling co-author, renowned soulmate expert and President of Manifesting My Destiny, Lorii Abela teams up with some of the world’s most sought after coaches, matchmakers and speakers on the matter of love, dating and relationships in a phenomenal hand-book of the same name – Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life. The book contains valuable insight into the psychology of dating and creating long-lasting relationships and targets singles around the globe. You can continue reading the post and leave your thoughts at


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Relationship Hiccups for Busy Ladies Over 50

Aisha Sultan for lifestyle column, headshot taken Friday, December 21, 2007When you’re in the midst of a fulfilling career and balancing so many things in your life, a long-term relationship can often seem like a wet blanket to your life’s agenda.However, have you ever asked yourself whether you’re lying to yourself when you say that you aren’t interested in a relationship anymore? A lot of women over 50 either feel that there’s something wrong with them or that they’re really self-sufficient, and that’s why they’re still single. But the truth is that the majority of them have merely been going about it the wrong way. The following tips will help you identify areas that you can change to get Mr. Right out of your dreams and into your car!
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