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How to Find a Date for Valentine’s Day

It’s a few days until the official day of love, and you haven’t found a date yet! Did you know that most single women are likely to spend Valentine’s Day alone at home if they haven’t found a date at least a couple days prior to “The Day?” Well, don’t fret if your calendar’s still empty for the 14th; here are some great tips to help you land that date for Valentine’s

Go to a Singles Event

In every city, there are tons of places where singles hang out, trying to ‘hook up’ with someone they vibe well with. Why not go to one of these places and see if you find someone you’d like to spend Valentine’s with. It might seem like a long shot, but remember that singles hangouts are ideal for “browsing around” for the right person. Who knows, you might even hit the jackpot!

Go to an Online Dating Site

Though a lot of people are skeptical about online dating portals, there are tons of opportunities to meet great people if you know how to navigate around all the garbage that you typically find. Go to a well-known dating site and spend some money for a premium account that offers a profile-matching service. It makes your task a whole lot easier, and you may not have to spend Valentine’s Day alone with a bowl of Rocky Road and a DVD of Sleepless in Seattle!

Ask a Friend

If you have some good friends in the city – couples, even – then ask them if they know any singles who they think might like to meet you. You don’t have to sound desperate, but just let them know how hard it is to meet the right person. They just might know someone who might be right for you. You’ll never be able to answer the question ‘how can I find true love’ if you don’t try every method possible.

Hit the Gym

A gym is as good a place as any to find the man of your dreams. However, you need to know the best times – ideally, just before work in the morning or after work in the afternoons is when the hard-working, hard-living singles tend to go to the gym. That’s when you need to be around so you can meet someone at the water fountain or wherever.

Make new Friends at Work

You can even hang around with a new circle of friends at work so you get to meet some new people every once in a while. If there’s a party going on with lots of singles, you want to make sure you’re invited! Constantly meeting new people is a great way to find someone to hook up with, and who knows, you might even end up finding a soulmate when the time is right.

The point is, you never know where you’re going to meet Mr. Right, so just give yourself the best chance possible and explore all avenues available to you. He may not fall from the heavens right into your lap, but you just may bump into him around that next corner.

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Discover how to find love in 2015. Meet some “cupids” live in Chicago on February 12 for a pre-Valentine’s book launch of the Amazon best seller book entitled “Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life.”

PRLog - Jan. 25, 2015 - CHICAGO – In a smash-hit sequel to the hugely popular Sexy Secrets series, best-selling co-author, renowned soulmate expert and President of Manifesting My Destiny, Lorii Abela teams up with some of the world’s most sought after coaches, matchmakers and speakers on the matter of love, dating and relationships in a phenomenal hand-book of the same name – Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life. The book contains valuable insight into the psychology of dating and creating long-lasting relationships and targets singles around the globe. You can continue reading the post and leave your thoughts at


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Relationship Hiccups for Busy Ladies Over 50

Aisha Sultan for lifestyle column, headshot taken Friday, December 21, 2007When you’re in the midst of a fulfilling career and balancing so many things in your life, a long-term relationship can often seem like a wet blanket to your life’s agenda.However, have you ever asked yourself whether you’re lying to yourself when you say that you aren’t interested in a relationship anymore? A lot of women over 50 either feel that there’s something wrong with them or that they’re really self-sufficient, and that’s why they’re still single. But the truth is that the majority of them have merely been going about it the wrong way. The following tips will help you identify areas that you can change to get Mr. Right out of your dreams and into your car!
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Love Around the Corner for Busy Over-40 Women

couple_in_whiteHere is a teaser of my latest article on YourTango

If you are over 40, busy as heck and don’t have time for anything other than making sure your life’s in order, it’s likely that you have put romance on a back shelf somewhere.


Finding a soulmate isn’t a pursuit exclusive to those in their 20s or 30s. In fact, your age is the right age to think maturely about relationships. You have the experience to know what you want; more importantly, what you definitely DON’T want. In addition, a busy life or a hectic career are fine only as long as you have the right person to share it with at the end of the day.

Here are some pointers for women-over-40 who are open to new relationships.

• If you have a friend with a large social network, let them know of your availability. Why hide under a rock when you should be shouting from the mountaintops? Well, figuratively, anyway. The point is, getting a good friend to give you a helping hand in finding the right man is something to be proud of, not something to be ashamed of.

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Top 5 Reasons Why Your Relationship is Failing

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Have you ever wondered why a relationship fails?
For most people, the answer to that question would be a “no”…until it happens to them.

At this point in your life, if you’re in the process of finding a soulmate and find yourself in a relationship that seems to be heading nowhere – or worse, going in reverse – then one of the following reasons may be the culprit.

The Choice

The most obvious reason may be that you made the wrong choice in the first place. We’re not always sure of what we want, so when we see something we like, we tend to confuse the two. It’s a typical “love at first sight, but now I can’t stand the sight” syndrome!

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Finding A Soulmate 101: The 5 Subtle Secrets To Success

couple_in_bed_0Here is a teaser of my latest article on YourTango

There’s no “system” for finding a soulmate. You don’t ever have “The House” clean you out and there’s certainly no “House Edge” haunting your every move. But as easy as it may all sound to you, it might come as a surprise to learn that soulmate success involves some secrets. Here are some nifty tips to get you through those “still single” blues days that keep creeping up on you like a new birthday every year!

1. Keep Your Standards High
Agreeing to every dating opportunity is not about lowering your standards to what you’re uncomfortable with. It’s about first identifying what those standards are, and then learning how to say no when you meet someone who doesn’t fit that picture. Saying no means you respect yourself and will not compromise on what you value in a relationship. Just because he’s a ‘looker’ doesn’t mean you throw your standards out the window and let him into your life.

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Singles 365: 10 Epic Reasons to Date Someone New Every Day

sirenfHere is a teaser of my latest article on YourTango

Okay, let’s get this over with quickly. It’s not every day that you come across these many “excuses for success” all lined up like ducks in a row, ready and waiting for you to take advantage of them. “How do you find love” can be uncertain. However, everyone gets a chance in finding a soulmate. On to business:

Reason #1: It allows you to apply the process of elimination to what could otherwise be a very tricky decision!

Reason #2: The more you date, the more attractive you become (to yourself, which is more important, anyway!)

Reason #3: The second date is entirely your choice, not your lot! There’s freedom to choose.

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Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life Co-Author Mary Ann Comaroto

Lorii Abela, Soulmate Expert, interviews Mary Ann Comaroto , Relationship Expert and Activist. She talks about the core components in responsible relationships.

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Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life Co-Author Tamara Star

Lorii Abela, Soulmate Expert, interviewed Tamara Star, Author, Speaker, Coach, about living life to the fullest and how it relates to one’s love life.

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